Dec 11 2013

Peter Thomas Senese And The I CARE Foundation: Christmas Is Abduction Season… Protecting Your Children During Holiday Travel

When many of us think of Christmas holidays we think of family celebrations.  Seeing smiles on our children’s faces as we all enjoy the excitement in the air over the holidays.  Well, not all families are going to be celebrating this holiday season.  There will be numerous families that are going to be thrown into the nightmarish world of international parental child abduction… a world that that literally affects hundreds of thousands of families each year.

If you’re like hundreds of thousands of parents around the world the term international parental child abduction may be one you are not familiar with… until a child you know is kidnapped and illegally detained in a foreign country by the child’s other parent.  The cases of international parental abduction dramatically increase during the Christmas holidays as the abducting parent very often uses holiday travel as part of their abduction scheme… all while having no intention of ever returning to the country of origin with the child.

Unlike abduction within the borders of one’s own country, international abduction presents challenges and complications that one can’t even begin to imagine. The best solution is prevention… and prevention is accomplished through awareness.  Though our goal is to always be raising awareness among the parent community with the hope of preventing abductions, with the high rate of abductions that occur this time of year, it is imperative that parents are getting the information regarding abduction prevention so they are best able to protect their children. It is essential to know the WARNING SIGNS of international parental child abduction as well as knowing what to do if international parental child abduction is in progress.

If you are a parent that has a child traveling abroad this holiday season, or if you have a court order requiring your child travel, one of the best tools that you can use to protect your child from international abduction is the I CARE Foundation’s International Travel Child Consent Form.  

Protecting Children From International Abduction With The I CARE Foundation’s International Travel Child Consent Form: 

Airplane-Taking-OffThe International Travel Child Consent Form was created to prevent international parental child abduction as it focuses on the issue of wrongful detention of a child while traveling abroad.  With an estimated 85% of all international parental abductions dealing with wrongful detention, it is geared at potentially stopping the majority of these parental kidnappings.

As mentioned above, if you are a parent that is allowing or is required to allow a child to travel to a foreign country need to strongly consider having the other parent sign the International Travel Child Consent Form.  Should that parent not be willing to, this is a very serious warning sign that they may be planning an abduction.

In the short time that this ground-breaking abduction prevention tool has been in use, not only has it made an enormous impact in the world of international child abduction, but it has also been acknowledged by major child abduction prevention stakeholders around the world.

In regards to the success of the travel document thus far, Peter Thomas Senese, the I CARE Foundation’s Executive Director, shares this:

To the best of our knowledge, since the creation of the I CARE Foundation’s International Travel Child Consent Form, all children traveling abroad from Hague Convention signatory countries who were expected to return to their country of original jurisdiction have come home. There have actually been several cases where one parent initially refused to sign the International Travel Child Consent Form, and in each of those cases, the overseeing judge would not permit travel.  At that point additional measures were put into place in order to prevent a future parental abduction.

It is critical for all parents who are allowing a child to travel abroad to understand is that there are numerous traps and schemes that a would-be abductor will use in order to legally keep a child abroad. Most of these schemes revolve around Articles 12 and 13 of the Hague Convention of the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction. Defending against these potential strategies is critical. It is the thrust of the I CARE Foundation’s International Travel Child Consent Form.  And with tens of thousands of children around the world targeted for international parental abduction each year, our travel consent form may be the most effective tool that could help prevent abduction or help return a child to their country of original jurisdiction under the spirit of Article 2 of the Hague Convention.

In the fight to end parental abduction, the I CARE Foundation, along with our remarkable colleagues around the world will continue our efforts associated with the Special Commission created to report to the Hague on the utilization of the Travel Consent Form in an effort to create a document that will be used for all children when traveling abroad. 

The Warning Signs of International Parental Child Abduction:


The WARNING SIGNS of an international parental child abduction are evident in the majority of parental child abduction cases.  In itself, the act of international parental child abduction is a crime in most countries, including the United States and Canada.  The abducting parent typically use the child as a tool to cause the targeted parent great pain and suffering. Their intent is simple: to make the other parent suffer as much as possible by depriving that targeted parent with the love and connection to their own child. Nearly every published study on this subject has concluded that an abducting parent has significant, and typically, long-term psychological problems and may in fact be a danger to their child.  In these cases concern and care for the child’s well-being are not generally the relevant issue or concern among abducting parents.

If you should happen to be a parent in a high-conflict relationship – involved in child custody disputes, separation or divorce, especially if your partner has ties abroad, you must be proactive in protecting your children.  Often, parents that are involved in international child custody disputes and who may be targeted for abduction think that their child is best protected from abduction when there is a court agreement in place for the child to return if the other parent is granted travel. The truth is that unless there is an International Travel Child Consent Form that has immediate ramifications attached to it, the parent and child targeted for abduction are at serious risk. 

Something to be aware of is that a would-be abducting parent, as part of their abduction scheme, will begin to live a life of deceit.  Part of their elaborate plan for abduction, might have the would-be abducting parent creating the facade of being happily married and committed to their relationship, all while planning on how to get the child abroad.

From there, a common scenario might be for the would-be abductor to state that it would be nice if they could travel to their country of origin for what might appear to be a family vacation to visit a sibling or parents over the holidays.  When the family arrives in the foreign country, the would-be abducting parent may file false claims of abuse and neglect against the other parent.  Once this is done, they notify the other parent that they and the child will not be returning back to the country of original jurisdiction.  At this point, the targeted parent is generally forced to return back home without their child where they then need to seek legal assistance.

Welcome to the cruel and unforgivable world of international child abduction.

U.S. Programs That Help Prevent International Abductions:

There are two critical programs available to U.S. parent citizens that may aid in the prevention of their U.S. child citizen from being internationally abducted.

The Children’s Passport Issuance Alert Program (CPIAP) is one of the Department of State’s most important tools for preventing international parental child abduction.  Parents are able to register their U.S. citizen children under the age of 18 in the Passport Lookout System.  If at some point a passport application is submitted for a child that is registered in the CPIAP, the Department of State contacts and alerts the parent(s).  This system provides the parent(s) with advance warning of possible plans for international travel with the child.

The Charleston Passport Center is responsible for administering the Children’s Passport Issuance Alert Program:

U.S. Department of State
Passport Services, Charleston Passport Center

Attn: Children’s Passport Issuance Alert Program
1269 Holland Street, Building D
Charleston, SC 29405

E-mail: ChildrensPassports@state.gov
Phone: 1-888-407-4747
Fax: 843-746-1827

The Prevent Departure Program (PDP) is another critical tool used in the fight to protect children from international abduction.  In the past, American parents at risk of having a child illegally removed from the United States had to deal with the reality that it was extremely difficult to stop an international child abduction if the other parent possessed a right of American citizenship (sole or dual citizenship). Part of the problem is that the United States has limited exit controls and government published information regarding programs that could be utilized to stop international parental child abduction such as the Prevent Departure Program require a suspected international parental child abductor to not have a right of American Citizenship, among a host of other requirements.

Today, parents who are at risk of having a child internationally abducted by a parent who possesses citizenship to the United States of America or who has dual citizenship may be able to protect their children from abduction.

If you should happen to be an at-risk parent that believes your child’s other parent is planning or is in the process of an international parental abduction, please contact the United States Department of State’s Office of Children’s Issues Abduction Prevention Bureau to discuss potential measures that may be available to you to ensure the individual parent suspected of an international child abduction threat does not illegally depart the United States and remove your child in violation of a court order or in breach of your right of custody.

Similarly, be sure to contact the Office of Children’s Issues Prevention Bureau to discuss if there are potential prevention techniques unique to your case that may allow the Department of State to work with other federal agencies so to secure your child is not a victim of international parental child abduction.

Individuals that are seeking the assistance of the Department of State and the implementation of the Prevent Departure Program should make sure that they have the following information ready to submit to the Office of Children’s Issues:

  1. Full name, date, place of birth of Potential taking parent.
  2. Full name, date, place of birth of Potential left behind parent (and PLBP’s contact info, including a surface address).
  3. Passport number and issuing country (if available, and not U.S.) for both parents.
  4. Full name of child.
  5. Date, place of birth of child.
  6. U.S. passport number of child.
  7. Passport number and issuing country of any dual national passport of child (if available).
  8. Copy of court order with travel restrictions.
  9. Full contact details, including a 24/7 phone and email (to email court documents, we do not have after hours fax access), for law enforcement contact.
  10. Details of potential travel plans.

To contact the Department of State’s Office of Children’s Issues Prevention Bureau please contact:

The United States Department of State
Office Of Children’s Issues
Abduction Prevention Bureau
SA-17, 9th Floor
Washington, DC 20522-1709
Phone: 1-888-407-4747   or   202-501-4444
Email: prevention@state.gov

To contact the I CARE Foundation concerning abduction matters please email us at legal@stopchildabduction.org. 

Reported Abductions Originating From The U.S. Decline:

In 2011, the I CARE Foundation commenced formal operations with the mission to protect children from abduction.

Now, the I CARE Foundation is not alone in our efforts, however there is no question that our outreach efforts have made a tremendous impact on the lives of the extensive number of families that we have voluntarily assisted.

In the United States, in contradiction to the forecasted 25% increase in the abduction growth rate for 2011, the actual reported rate declined by over 15%. During the year, 2012, the actual reported abduction rate dropped by over 16%. This is pretty remarkable considering that there has been nearly 30 years of growth in international parental child abduction cases reported in the United States since America became a signatory of the Hague Convention.

With the 2013 fiscal year end just around the corner it is expected that the reported numbers will show another significant decline in the international parental child abduction rate.  And, as an organization that fights to stop international parental child abduction, this is something that is truly amazing!

Worldwide abduction rates have not been reported since 2008. This has little to do with the Permanent Bureau of the Hague Conference, but instead a failure by signatory countries to report their inbound and outbound abduction rate. However, it is believed that the global rate of abduction continues to steadily climb out disturbing rates. With the worldwide launch and utilization of the I CARE Foundation’s International Travel Child Consent Form, the global rate of abduction is expected to decline.

All Children Need To Be Protected From Abduction:

Outside of the I CARE Foundation’s International Travel Child Consent Form, the United States government and agencies such as the Department of State continue their remarkable work attempting to protect children from international parental child abduction.

It is estimated that the Department of State successfully requests placement of 8-10 individuals on the Prevent Departure Program each month while also overseeing an estimated 60 applications for utilization on the Passport Issuance Alert Program.  This has played an incredible role in the 15% and 16% decline in international parental child abduction rates during 2011 and 2012 respectively.

If you think about it, that’s a lot of innocent lives that are protected… and according to a report from the Department of Justice, children who are kidnapped by a parent face severe physical abuse and are also put at an extreme risk of being murdered.

In fact, Dr. Phillip Resnick, the Director of Forensic Psychiatry at Case Western Reserve University in Cleveland stated in an article that was published by the Denver Post a few years ago about parental child killing, “Historically, one out of 33 homicides is a parent killing a child younger than 18.” Dr. Resnick, who conducted a study on filicide in 2005 states “Filicide, the deliberate act of a parent killing his or her own child, is the third-leading cause of death in American children ages 5 to 14.”

Filicide is not a term that we talk about alot, but the reality is, we need to talk about it more.  The third leading cause of death in American children. Can you imagine?  According to the Denver Post reports, “Researchers estimate 250 to 300 children are murdered by their parents each year in the U.S.  Now, filicide occurs everywhere… it is not a phenomenon isolated within American borders.  Simply put, parents do kill children!  And we can’t put our head in the sand and think this does not exist.

The common misconception that parental abductions are considered a family matter has to end.

Parental child abduction is a serious crime. The act of abduction leads to ongoing forms of abuse toward a child.

When a child is abducted they must be immediately considered to be in great danger!  It is that serious!

Chasing The Cyclone: Educating Parents About International Child Abduction

Peter Thomas Senese 2Peter Thomas Senese, author of the critically-acclaimed novel ‘Chasing The Cyclone,’ about a father searching for his internationally abducted son, has had a far-reaching social impact.  It is being called both a call-to-arms against the wide-spread epidemic of international child kidnapping, as well referred to as a blue-print on how to either prevent a child from being abducted, or how to reunite with your child.

In addition, Chasing The Cyclone has enabled something remarkable: it has helped reunite children with their parents, as Peter Thomas Senese has so generously donated 100% of his author royalties to the I CARE Foundation.

To quote Peter Thomas Senese,  “The I CARE Foundation is actively trying to reunite other children who have been internationally abducted with their families. I think my readers have a deep sense of satisfaction knowing that when they purchase one of my novels, they are making a measurable difference in the life of a defenseless child – and that is pretty cool.”

Peter Thomas Senese: Testimonial Letters Regarding His Work Helping Children and Families In Crisis

Clearly, protecting children from parental abduction requires an indefatigable commitment to stand unbowed so children and their families may never know the nightmare that is the world of international abduction.  Peter Thomas Senese has proven time and again that he is deeply committed to his goal of preventing child abduction.

There are numerous sworn testimonial letters from individuals regarding the advocacy and volunteer work that Peter does each and every day.  Many of these letters are related to recovering and bringing home children who were abducted or who were targeted for abduction, however there are also several letters that share his deep desire for helping others who may be facing severe medical issues.

Ultimately, each one of these sworn letters shares not only a little insight, but also a unique perspective of who Peter Thomas Senese is.

My son is home today because a miracle was needed . . . and that miracle showed up in Peter Thomas Senese . . . He is honest, direct, sincere, compassionate, highly knowledgeable, and incredibly, he asks for nothing in return, even though the efforts he puts forth to help rescue children such as my son are very costly. What can I say about a man who helped bring my kidnapped son home from Africa? Well, that’s easy: God Bless you Peter for all you have done for me and my family.

Change is occurring, and Mr. Senese and the I CARE Foundation are clearly responsible for a significant part of this by the development and worldwide release of their Hague-Convention-oriented International Travel Child Consent Form that has been publicly cited by the Secretary General of the Hague Conference as a landmark child abduction prevention tool . . . Peter has not only been a warrior and angel, but he has also become a most treasured and trusted friend.

Well, to put it mildly, I was very uncertain about my future: I was fighting Stage 4 cancer, my doctors told me I was dying, I was financially in bad shape, and I didn’t feel well. I had no hope. Enter Peter Thomas Senese. And my world immediately changed for the better. And this is truly what has happened. … I went from being left alone to die at a small-time local hospital to having a dozen of the world’s best doctors by my side from Memorial Sloan Kettering, telling me they were going to do everything possible to help get me better.

While the holiday season is about family time and caring for oneself, let us also remember the words of the legend, Nelson Mandela: “We owe our children – the most vulnerable citizens in any society – a life free from violence and fear.

Let us protect every child we can by sharing the above message with others, as sharing this information helps raise awareness and in turn, helps to protect the lives of innocent children around the world.

In an effort to help prevent international child abduction, take a few moments and educate yourself about the WARNING SIGNS of international parental child abduction.  It not only protects your children but perhaps other children you might know…. isn’t that worth a few minutes of your time?

If you would like to learn more about the criminal act and schemes of parental child abduction, or to download a free copy of the International Travel Child Consent Form visit the I CARE Foundation website.

If an international parental child abduction is imminent or is in progress, click here.

And lastly, to purchase your copy of Chasing The Cyclone, please visit Amazon or Barnes and Noble.

The I CARE Foundation would like to wish you the best of the holiday season!



As a Canadian blogger and the mom of a child on the autism spectrum, Jen shares a lot about life while having a child with autism... raising autism awareness and the need for acceptance. She is an active advocate both online and in the community for those with autism but also service dogs. Also as a volunteer for the I CARE Foundation Jen shares a great deal of information about international parental child abduction (IPCA) in an effort to help raise awareness and educate parents about the risks and warning signs of international parental child abduction. Mom-ology has been ranked in the Top 25 Canadian Mom Blogs for 2012 & 2013, one of the Most Influential Canadian Mom Blogs for 2013 as well as placing in 1st (Disability) & 3rd (Activism & Social Justice) for the Canadian Weblog Awards 2013.

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  1. Peter Thomas Senese

    Dear Jen – There are no words that I can share on behalf of the I CARE Foundation that could thank you for your incredible work and dedication helping to prevent abduction of children around the world. With great gratitude for all you do – THANK YOU.

    1. Jen

      Thank you Peter…

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